John 3:16
16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son,[f] that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
This one verse has long been regarded as “the Gospel in a nutshell.” We see “John 3:16″ on signs at ballgames, and used to see it in Tim Tebow’s eyeblack before the NFL’s uniform code disallowed it. I’ve often wondered how many saw that reference and had no idea what it referred to. If you’ve ever wondered what John 3:16 means, I hope to help you understand in this post. This one elegant statement sums up God’s plan of salvation.
There is some disagreement as to who is speaking at this point. Some scholars believe that Jesus is still speaking all the way to verse 21. Others think that the quotation ends at verse 15, and that from this point to verse 21, John is adding his own commentary on what Jesus had said to Nicodemus. Either way, these verses are crucial to our understanding of the Gospel, and what it means to accept or reject Jesus.
For God so loved the world: This phrase makes two key points. First, God took the initiative, and he did so because of his great love. Many get the idea from the Old Testament and their own upbringing that God is all about judgment. They imagine that God is watching us all the time, just waiting for us to mess up so he can condemn us. There is the mistaken impression that the love of Jesus somehow changed the mind of God from judgment to love. But God, even though he would have been well justified in destroying the world because of our wickedness, made this ultimate sacrifice for one reason; because he loved us so much. Jesus would never have come at all if not for the love of God.
The second point is that God loved the world. This was a big part of what Nicodemus was struggling with. Jews of his day did not believe that God loved the world. They believed that God loved Israel, and hated Israel’s enemies, which was pretty much everyone else. That’s how they justified their hatred of the Gentile nations. When Jesus said we are to love our enemies, (Matthew 5:43-48, blog) it was a revolutionary statement, because the common wisdom was that we should love our neighbor, and hate our enemy. Israelites figured that God hated their enemies, so they should hate them too. So if Jesus was still speaking to Nicodemus here, this would have been a shocking statement to him. God loved the world, with all its paganism, debauchery, and cruelty? Yes, and he still loves each of us, in spite of our sin. His love does not imply approval, however. God loves us like a parent with a wayward child. A parent loves their child unconditionally, even though they may disapprove of their behavior. And we are God’s wayward children. But he loves us so much that he sent his only Son, knowing all the while that many would reject even this extravagant gesture.
I believe that this phrase also refutes the Calvinist doctrine of limited atonement. That doctrine states that Jesus did not die for all, he died for the elect. The reasoning is that if Christ died for all and all are not saved, then the blood of Christ is ineffective, and God is not sovereign. That belief flies in the face of this, the central verse of Christianity. God did not so love the elect that he gave his only Son. He loved the world so much that he did that. Jesus is not the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the elect. He is the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world. (1:29, blog)
…that he gave his one and only Son:
This phrase gets into the nature of the Trinity, which none of us can really explain. Jesus is God in the form of a man. He was born to a human woman, Mary, who was impregnated by the Holy Spirit. Somehow, during his time on earth, God the Father and Jesus were separate beings. Otherwise, when Jesus prayed, he was praying to himself. But he was and is God.
Though no one can fully explain how Jesus is God’s Son, and also God himself, the key phrase here is one and only. This was a one-time, once for all deal. Animal sacrifices were insufficient to save. The only way to save us all, once and for all, was for God to sacrifice his one and only Son. Some of us are willing to sacrifice our own lives to save another, but how many of us would sacrifice the life of our only child? More than that, how many would sacrifice our child to save someone who hated us, or denied we even existed? God had a whole world of people like that, and he gave his one and only Son to save them.
…that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
As I’ve stated many times before in this blog, many have the idea that believing means to simply agree that something is true. But that’s not what it means at all. It means to trust in, rely upon, and live in accordance with what we say we believe. We live this every day and never think about it. If you don’t believe that a bridge will hold, will you cross it? We drive our cars because we believe that they will get us to our destination safely. If we didn’t believe that, we wouldn’t drive them. If you say you believe in something, but your “belief” doesn’t affect your behavior, you don’t really believe at all.
In order to receive the benefit of my belief in my car, I have to drive it. By the same token, in order to receive the benefit of belief in Jesus, I have to live for him, trust in him, rely upon him, and live according to what he says. As this verse plainly says, whoever believes in Jesus will not perish, but have eternal life. That doesn’t mean our bodies will never die. Everybody dies, but those who believe will not perish in the eternal sense. The Amplified Bible translates the word perish as come to destruction, be lost. Those who truly believe in Jesus will not come to destruction, will not be lost in the life to come. Instead, we will have eternal life. As I said in my last post, eternal life isn’t just human life that lasts forever. That could be a curse! No, eternal life is the very life of God. It’s a life where time does not exist, where we live in the immediate presence of God forever. It’s resurrected life in all the power and glory that Jesus had in his resurrected, glorified body. In spite of all our wickedness and rebellion against God, God loved the whole world so much that he sacrificed his one and only Son, so that whoever believes in him, trusts in him, relies upon him, and puts his words into practice would not be lost or come to destruction, but have the very eternal life of God himself.